Tonight I realized that one of the most influential friendships of my life is (was) abusive, manipulative, and straight up unhealthy. I feel so stupid for making excuses for you and pouring so much of my energy into our friendship, when all you wanted was a maid, a mother, an ugly best friend to third wheel around with you.

I have to remember a friend should celebrate with me, not send me passive aggressive texts, reminding me of my insecurities and short comings. I have to stop being too proud to walk away from a dead relationship

Tags: personal

nightlyallaround:

Mad Men characters through seasons » Joan Holloway

season 1: “He may act like he wants a secretary, but most of the time they’re looking for something between a mother and a waitress.”

season 2: “This is why I don’t allow crying in the break room. It erodes morale. There’s a place to do that, like your apartment.”€

season 3: “One day you’re on top of the world and the next some secretary is running you over with a lawn mower.

season 4: “So all you’ve done is proved to them that I’m a meaningless secretary and you’re another humorless bitch.”

season 5: “Men don’t take the time to end things. They ignore you until you insist on a declaration of hate.”

season 6: “I'm in charge of thinking of things before people know they need them.”

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same.

same.

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"Life’s a bitch, now so am I."

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Ugh I would love to be their child.

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"The only way for a woman, as for a man, to find herself, to know herself as a person, is by creative work of her own. There is no other way."

Betty Friedan (via introspectivepoet)

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point-north:

Poison Ivy, Batman and Robin (1997)

point-north:

Poison Ivy, Batman and Robin (1997)

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"I think he’s very lonely. Lonelier than he lets on. Maybe lonelier than he even realizes."

The Royal Tenenbaums. (via theburnthatkeepseverything)

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sugarcombe:

I will never get over this movie

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"Never become a prisoner of your own style."

Armin Van Buuren (via andlohespoke)

"Pain is the best instructor. But no one wants to go to his class."

— Choi Hong Hi, Founder of Taekwon-Do (via andlohespoke)

Remember the time you drove all night
Just to meet me in the morning
And I thought it was strange you said everything changed
You felt as if you’d just woke up
And you said “this is the first day of my life
I’m glad I didn’t die before I met you
But now I don’t care I could go anywhere with you
And I’d probably be happy”

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